Why You Should Never let People’s Opinion of You Become Your Reality
At the age of 20, most of us care a lot about what people say and think about us. But, when we get to 40, we start not caring about people’s opinions. At that age, what other people think or feel about you, does not matter. Now, imagine if you realized this truth despite your age. In truth, discovering that people’s opinions should not become your reality, helps you live a better life.
One of the most important things you should realize is that nobody knows you as you know yourself. And, if you go out looking for people’s opinion; you will end up confused. Therefore, never try to make other people’s opinion your reality. Another important fact to realize is that everyone cares about what other people think of them.
So, to try and appeal to other people; your friend or loved one will end up judging you. And, it does not matter what you do; their primary goal will always be to impress others. This is why most people end up being mean to others for no apparent reason. However, once you learn that other people’s opinion does not matter; you start to live and enjoy your life.